Not only that, but to be less driven by negative emotions: whether it’s self-doubt, discomfort with conflict, or fear of failure?
What if you were more in control of unwanted surges of stress, anger, and nervousness?
What if instead you felt level-headed and even happy in the situations where you used to lose your cool – be it with friends and family or in the working world?
How would you behave differently?
And what would your life look like if you could maintain that emotional clarity for an extended period of time?
That vision might seem a far way off, but it’s more achievable than you think.
But you’re going to have to take a different approach than most people.
You see, at some level we ALL want more joy and less fear in our lives.
We just go about it in different ways. Some people work hard to…
Cultivate a perfect body
Be praised by a huge audience
Find the perfect romantic partner
But there is a huge problem with all these approaches.
Because even if you get those things, you’re likely to find that the goalpost for joy just moves a bit farther ahead…
Like, “Okay that was an amazing achievement – but now I need to do THIS achievement to feel good.”
And rather than removing negative emotions, you tend to just positively reframe them with a new name.
So instead of being fearful of failure, you say you’re a “perfectionist.”
Instead of feeling uncomfortable with conflict, you say you’re “too busy with other things.”
And instead of feeling hesitation and self-doubt, you say you’re “stressed about work.”
In short, no matter what you DO or SAY you’re likely to find that you don’t FEEL much different.
At least not for long…
Think about it: how many celebrities have “everything,” yet still self-destruct, sometimes taking their own lives in the process?
And closer to home, what was the last goal YOU had to hit? A financial goal you needed to cross? A fitness achievement you needed to check off your list?
Months later, how much happier has it made you?
I’m willing to bet “not much.”
That’s not to say that getting certain things can’t contribute to your happiness.
It’s simply to point out that even though we care primarily about how we FEEL, we spend our effort on things that don’t work long term!
You see, the subconscious mind is made up of hidden beliefs, self-concepts, and ways of seeing the world that act like a thermostat…
It keeps your experience of life within certain boundaries. You can’t go too high or too low.
And though major life events can pull us away for short periods of time…
Like a thermostat, we’ll always find our way back to our personal “normal.”
This operates on everything from our emotions: how much joy, frustration, and stress we tend to experience…
To our behaviors: how assertive we are, how much we stick up for ourselves, and how likely we are to pursue the things that inspire us.
This can operate in your favor — pulling you towards more joy, happiness, and success as YOU define it.
Or it can work against you — pulling you towards stress, limitations, and success as OTHER people define it.
And what’s most crazy is that we aren’t even aware of the pull the subconscious has on us.
Instead, we invent reasons after the fact to explain why our behavior can land so far from our expectation, like “I’m just off today” or “That’s just how I am around people like that.”
Really though, the subconscious is heading EXACTLY where it’s programmed to be.
Sadly, most people have never directly influenced this subconscious thermostat. And they don’t even realize it’s set far below where their true potential lies.
So you prime your subconscious for more joy and happiness.
When you start off happier, not only do you get the amazing benefit of FEELING happier more often…
You also limit self-defeating behaviors, like:
Avoiding the important conversations that need to be had
People pleasing and seeking approval at the expense of your self-esteem
Stressing out over things that are ultimately unimportant
Instead, you’ll bring clarity and confidence to whatever problems might arise, solving them without needless emotional baggage.
Similarly, you can take power out of the things that make you stressed, angry, jealous, or insecure.
Then you’ll stay more cool, calm, and collected in high pressure situations…
And you’ll almost effortlessly perform better.
Not to mention that when you exude GENUINE positive feelings and are quick to dispense with negative ones, good people will naturally gravitate towards you.
And persistent problems that might arise in your closest relationships can be productively resolved.
The problem of course is that even though we pay lip service to the power of the subconscious, almost no one has any idea how to influence it.
So when we want to change our lives, we focus on external symptoms.
Like earning more money, making people like us, developing skills to build up our self-esteem and self-image.
That doesn’t mean the external approach is “bad.” I think it’s great when people are able to make their external conditions more closely match their dreams.
After all, getting people to like you quickly is a big part of what I teach with Charisma on Command. It definitely made me happier for a period of time and I don’t regret focusing on it at all.
But one thing developing my charisma, running my own business, and essentially living my dream life has taught me is…
Because it doesn’t address your subconscious programming.
Not only that, but if you never address the core issue, everything you do is going to be only partially effective. A temporary fix.
Think about it…
What is a big, but difficult life improvement you’ve tried to make? Being more confident? Feeling more positive? Caring less what other people think?
Chances are, you’ve made some behavioral level changes. And chances are, they helped. In fact, a tremendous amount of what I share on the Charisma on Command Youtube channel is along these lines.
At some point though, you’ve probably found that behavioral level changes become high maintenance and less effective.
And even when you’ve built good habits of positivity, taking responsibility, and raising your personal standards, some things just can’t be shaken.
You STILL doubt yourself, though you try to cover it up
You STILL seek approval rather than pursuing your dream life
You STILL feel like you have to shrink away from or justify yourself around certain people
And perhaps worst of all, you still move through life feeling “okay” instead of genuinely joyful.
And no matter how many affirmations, positive reactions, or impressive achievements you stack up, the subconscious doesn’t care.
But you don’t have to stay stuck in the programming.
There is a method to re-program your subconscious limitations and it’s exactly what is inside Emotional Mastery.
If you know you want in, join here.
Emotional Mastery is a 24-day step-by-step program designed to give you tools to feel more happiness and less anger, stress, anxiety, and fear.
This isn’t fluffy theory stuff either. You’ll get ready-to-use exercises that you can implement immediately so that each week you’re seeing positive changes.
You’ll also get an actionable, step-by-step guide so that you know how to integrate everything you learn into your daily life.
Here’s just SOME of the things you’ll be able to do using Emotional Mastery:
Consistently have your baseline level of happiness and joy higher so that you feel amazing more often
Get to the root of your motivations so you can distinguish between healthy skepticism (which you should heed) and limiting self-doubt
Feel motivated by your genuine desires and not feel controlled by the fear of what you “ought to be doing”
Quickly uncover lingering blind spots that are holding you back and keeping you playing small in your career and personal life
Stop patterns of anxiety driven behavior so you consistently come across cool, calm, and collected in pressure situations
Have proven tools to reduce stress, limit emotional decision making, and improve your judgement, so you’re the calmest person in the room (who also gets the right answer)
Overcome the fear of making mistakes so you stop missing opportunities while sitting on the sidelines or not going fast enough
Reprogram your subconscious mind so it pulls you towards your full potential instead of holding you back
Restore balance to your life instead of feeling like you have to impress people all the time through work, your appearance, or your achievements
Turn your emotions into fuel to live the life of your dreams so that you’re drawn to the best decisions, not the easiest
Emotional Mastery will take you step-by-step each leg of the journey, guiding you along so that as long as you follow the program, you’re guaranteed to see massive gains.
Emotional Mastery isn’t for everyone. I had a very particular type of person in mind when designing it. So if this is you, you’ll get the most benefit by far:
You’ve been successful
You’re probably living a prior version of yourself’s “dream life.” This doesn’t have to mean monetarily. But I’m mostly gearing this towards Type-A optimizers and Tim Ferriss fans who are looking for the best way to do just about everything.
You believe that getting more money/dates/status isn’t everything
Don’t get me wrong, all those things can be great. And mastering the subconscious can actually make you even more successful in those arenas. But those things are the cherry on top. For you, the real prize is the way you feel about yourself and your life every single day.
You’re willing to grow in unconventional ways
99% of people will not be familiar with the approaches taken in the course. So you need to be someone who is open to new paths for growth. We will be exploring parts of ourselves that most people avoid (the subconscious!) so it takes a fairly courageous and open-minded type.
You have good judgment, but lose it in certain areas
You have no problem removing emotions to make quality decisions in most areas of your life, perhaps in work or business. But when it comes to other things, like your family or significant other, you make emotional decisions that deep down, you know aren’t best for you in the long run.
It is spread over 24 days so you’re building lasting habits
The big problem with any attempt at positive change is that most people have these “aha” moments of inspiration…
Followed by a complete reversion to normal as soon as they stop reading or watching!
So continued reinforcement is critical. A little bit everyday is FAR more effective than “cramming.”
This way, you’re being continually reinforced, instead of just a “one-and-done” experience.
It is limited to 20-minute sessions so you stay motivated
If you’re like me, you’ve signed up for a course, checked out the first few minutes, and never logged back in. Which means that you get no benefit.
To prevent that, this course is laid out in bite-sized chunks.
Each day, you’ll have roughly 20 minutes of material and exercises combined.
They’re designed to be digestible, fun, and high impact so that you WANT to keep coming back every day.
If you’ve started courses and not finished in the past, I’ve done everything I can to push you over that hurdle.
It is based on practical exercises, not “theory”
Most courses are based on the old paradigm of sharing knowledge with the expectation that “knowing” creates change.
Well, it’s not true. Knowing that you need to “be confident” and actually BEING confident couldn’t be farther apart.
That’s why each day has an experiential element.
These are simple exercises, meditations, and bite-sized actions that take you from “knowing” something to actually feeling it in your bones.
Emotional Mastery is broken into 24 separate days plus bonus modules. You can go through the modules at the recommended pace of one per day or slow down and go through the program at your own pace.
It is all about taking small, concrete steps every day so that after 24 days, you have made massive strides.
Just remember, this course isn’t about acquiring knowledge. Regurgitating the lessons and even knowing their names is worth nothing. It’s about the experience of actually doing the daily exercises.
Breaking down 5 self-development myths that are counterproductive at advanced levels, like “fake it til you make it” and “don’t accept anything beneath your standards”
The 3 levels of belief and how to simultaneously rewire all 3 (most approaches will hit only 1, 2 max)
Reconnecting with repressed joy – many times to fit in, we ratchet down our positive feelings
Setting up your baseline level of daily joy to be higher
Doing self-improvement from a foundation of self-love rather than feeling like you’re “not enough”
Addressing the 6 foundational negative emotions that drive limiting behaviors
Uncovering childhood “vows” that are holding back your life in the shadows
Uncovering negative blind spots that are unconsciously holding you back
Working through hidden “trauma” – yes, everyone carries some with them and simply “knowing” your issues does not stop them from affecting you
Releasing patterns of stress, anger, and fear that are coming out in destructive ways
Identify the parts of your life that “yes man” and people pleasing tendencies are running – and stop once and for all
Stop basing your career decisions around impressing other people or keeping up with the Joneses
Tap into inspiration and motivation for a career or project that lights you up and helps other people
How to better understand what’s truly driving you, so you make certain you’re motivated by your genuine desires and not by fear of what you ought to be doing
Loosening the grip of habits that have addictive qualities and negative consequences — anything from social media, to news, to work, to pornography
Reconditioning dysfunctional behaviors in your most important relationships — your partner, family, and closest friends
Working with what psychologists call the “shadow” to find the hidden root of repetitive, negative behaviors and release it
Learning to change for the positive effortlessly (or as close as possible)
Getting past the insidious worries and self-doubt that wonder if you’re “doing things wrong” and sap your confidence
Removing the sense that you’re “doing it wrong”
How to know if you’ve plateaued and if so, how to continue growing instead of spinning your wheels
A simple daily exercise be more present and less stuck “in your head”
Because pursuing success on YOUR terms is such a huge part of Emotional Mastery, the #1 request from people who completed the course has been for specific guidance to get a passion-driven project off the ground.
That just happens to be something I have a ton of expericne with!
So in this newly added bonus section, I put together a crash course on how to create a YouTube channel that explodes in popularity.
The “F – 3T – C” Method that has gotten us millions of views and helps you create videos with the best chance at virality
All the things you need to completely IGNORE to focus on the 5 pieces that are make or break
The 3 mindsets that separate people who succeed on YouTube from the 99% who give up
The exact approach that built Charisma on Command to over 300M views and have been re-proven in 4 foreign language channels for an additional 150M views
Over the last 3 years, I have spent well over $10,000 USD on books, courses, retreats, experts, and seminars related to the topic of Emotional Mastery.
Was it worth it?
Hell yes! Quite frankly, I can’t think of a single thing I’d rather spend money on than the gift of feeling better.
But when people ask me what I’d recommend, I struggle to point to any one thing that I did in particular.
Some experiences were good, but prohibitively expensive. Others were mildly useful, but not enough to pass on. Others were total quackery.
And trust me, I went deep…everything from chakra healing to hypnotherapy to hooking electrodes up to my head for minor zaps (you don’t need to do that!)
And instead of having the resources scattered across the globe, for $10,000+ USD, I put it all the most valuable lessons and practices into this course.
And now you can get it for just $597 USD!
That includes a daily step-by-step system plus neverending instant access to any future bonuses we add to Emotional Mastery.
And because you might want to give it a look without the upfront payment…
Yep, that’s just $99.50 USD today to unlock the entirety of Emotional Mastery.
Or if you want to pay all at once, you can do that too.
So if you know that Emotional Mastery is right for you and you’re ready to commit to this, there’s never going to be a better time than right now.
Click the link below and join Emotional Mastery!
It’s my goal to make Emotional Mastery the most life-changing purchase you make this year.
But if you are not into the course for any reason, you can just refund inside the course within 60 days of buying and get every penny back.
We don’t mess around with refunds. I HATE it when you’re expected to jump through hoops or “prove” you’ve gone through the course to get your money back from an online course.
I want you to go through this course because you can see it’s dramatically improving your life, your mood, and your relationship with yourself – not because you are qualifying for some bogus refund policy.
So we make it incredibly easy to get out. Only stay if you find it valuable.
I’ll state this one last time to be perfectly clear:
If you’re still reading, I’m willing to bet that something I’ve said resonated with you.
Something clicked inside.
If you don’t try this, chances are, you’ll continue to approach your life in the Type-A way. You’ll bulldoze. Earn more, do more, out hustle. Fake it til you make it.
You’ll make strides, at least in the way the world sees you.
But if you don’t take a different approach, that subconscious thermostat won’t change.
You won’t feel as fulfilled as you could. You’ll stay self-sabotaging in hidden and not-so-hidden ways.
And the areas that have remained thorns in your side—like self-rejection, nagging insecurities, feeling like you might not be living up to your potential—will be things you cope with rather than address head on.
So if something inside you is switched “on”, this is your chance to find out why.
To try a new way of living that isn’t based on beating yourself up, or lying to yourself, or achieving someone else’s goals to feel their approval.
With our 60-day guarantee, you’ve got nothing to lose.
And a ton of self-generated happiness to gain.
So if you’re in, join here.
I hope to see you on the inside
At a high level, I see Charisma University as a course that is based on impacting the external world. That means that the habits you’ll build will make you more likely to be respected and liked in your social and professional life. Good results from CU look like concrete responses from other people that are trying to connect with you, more dates, potentially promotions, a successful interview, things of that nature.
Emotional Mastery is much more about the internal experience. What I found and I think that a lot of people have found in their lives is that after they’ve achieved everything that they set out to in the external realm, they still may lack a sense of control over their mood and emotions.
EM is about cultivating an internal experience that is much more fulfilling regardless of what’s going on around you. It definitely touches on some of the same themes from the Confidence module in terms of keeping your cool when things aren’t going great but also extends to dropping the comparative mindset, feeling a deeper sense of joy and satisfaction with your life, and raising your self-esteem/self-love.
You have 60 days to try as much of Emotional Mastery as you like. If at any point within those 60 days you don’t feel the course is for you, simply log in to the Account Settings page and refund your purchase. There are no extra steps, nothing to send back, no minimum amount of the course to complete. Refunds will be processed within 48 hours and may take a few days to show up on your credit card or Paypal statement.
All of our programs are digital so there is nothing to ship. You’ll get access to a membership site where you can view all of the content immediately and at any time you like going forward. Once you’ve paid the price of the course, you’ll have access forever.
If you go through Emotional Mastery and you don’t think it is obviously worth your time and money, get your money back. Simple as that.
I’m not interested in your money if this doesn’t have a huge positive impact on your life and I work hard on the content to make sure we over deliver. But, if you decide it isn’t for you, simply log in to the Account Settings page, refund your purchase and I’ll get you all of your money back. I’ll eat the credit card processing fees.